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Bachmann on Gay Marriage: Obama is 'Out of Touch'

The congresswoman issued a statement today, May 9, following President Obama's support of gay marriage.

 

Congresswoman Michele Bachmann on Wednesday called President Obama "out of touch" following his statement of support for gay marriage.

Below is a statement released from the congresswoman's office:

“The President’s announcement today shows how out of touch he is the values of American families. The President continues to practice the politics of division and diversion. He’s tried to divide the country over gender, education, class, and now he’s attempting to divide families all as a diversion to his failed economic policies that have affected all Americans.  

“Americans know better and support traditional marriage. In every state where marriage has been on the ballot, traditional marriage has prevailed. Even last night, in North Carolina, we saw traditional marriage defended.

“Marriage between one man and one woman is the foundation of our society. For more than 200 years, traditional marriage has been a cornerstone of the United States of America. I will do everything in my power to support and preserve traditional marriage and to protect American families.

“I was proud to introduce the first Constitutional amendment proposal in Minnesota when I served as a Minnesota state senator. I’m pleased that this November Minnesotans will have an opportunity to vote to defend traditional marriage. I will continue to protect traditional marriage, despite our president’s decision to thumb his nose at the traditional institution of marriage.”

As a state senator in Minnesota, Bachmann tried to amend the state constitution to define marriage as being between one man and one woman only.

Her husband, Marcus, has come under fire for his counseling center's apparent belief that homosexuality can be cured through prayer.

North Carolina voters on Tuesday passed an amendment to their state's constitution banning gay marriage.

There will be a ballot initiative on the matter in Minnesota this fall.

Related Topics: Bachmann, Gay Marriage, Obama, and Woodbury
What do you think about the issue? Tell us in the comments.

Susan

8:01 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Does this woman even know anyone who is gay? I would like to see her walk up and tell someone, to their face, that she believes being gay is a choice, and that with enough prayer, you can change your sexual orientation, and oh yeah, you don't deserve the same rights as everyone else. Leave the holier than thou preaching to the churches, which I believe should be able to the choose who they want to marry. The state however, should give every law abiding, consenting adult the same rights.

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Randy Marsh

8:29 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Susan, to answer your first question, yes she does. I won't name him directly, but it starts with a letter that falls between L and N in the alphabet and rhymes with Farcus.

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Susan

8:44 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

I've heard these jokes too, but in reality, I have to wonder if she knows anyone who is gay. In my experience, people can huff and puff all day long about how it is wrong and shouldn't be allowed, but once they come face to face with someone who is gay, and gets to know them, they have a really hard time explaining why they shouldn't have the same rights as everyone else.

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Randy Marsh

9:33 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

No joke, Susan, the man is a walking stereotype with his mannerisms and clearly in denial. Look at the list of outspoken homophobes who've been exposed. History suggests it's more than a strong possibility and he certainly fits the profile.

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Randy Marsh

9:39 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Getting back to your original question, I believe she has a sister who is a lesbian.

Susan

8:30 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

And someone please explain to me how any of these arguments against gay marriage are any different than the arguments were against interracial marriage? But I suppose that did change, and destroy the sanctity of marriage...give me a break!

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bill

9:19 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Bachman is Correct.The Family is the cornerstone of America.Obama Ansistory is from another part of the world and He will be defeated in the next election.Obama is very out of touch with Americans.He has blown the economy with screwed up policies and now He's grasping for straws.

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Thomas

10:03 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

You can't open an article on this site without getting Susan's two cents on it. Like to be the center of attention do we? Or maybe she is actually an expert on everything. And real classy Randy, attacking Bachmann for being anti gay and then making fun of her for having a potentially gay husband or lesbian sister. I'm not her biggest fan but at least she has a stance and is sticking with it. Obama was more or less forced to give his (most recent) opinion on the matter, which could change again in the future depending on which way the wind blows. Michelle's will not.

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Randy Marsh

10:15 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Thomas, could you please share where I made fun of anyone? I made a few accurate statements and your inference speaks only to your biases.

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Edward

10:26 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

I wonder how attacking Susan supports your position . . .

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Susan

7:25 am on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Thomas, who is forcing you to read my two cents? Sorry, I guess I didn't realize I was limited in the number of comments I could make.

Mary Buelow

10:41 pm on Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Whoa. What's with the harsh words? Aren't these comments here to promote healthy debate and interaction? This is an article about a woman's hatred, way to add to it!

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Rachel

7:37 am on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Bachmann is correct to defend the core beliefs of what God intended for marriage between to a man and a woman to procreate. Gay Marriage goes against that belief. I know several gay people and they are wonderful people many whom are friends. But I still believe that a marriage should be between a man and a woman.
I fear what Obama is doing to our country. Removing God from the world will have major repercussions - from God himself. I fear for our children's generation and what America will stand for if this man continues to destroy our country morally.

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Susan

7:58 am on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Rachel, I don't believe God should be removed from anyone's personal belief system, but I do believe God and religion need to stay our of government.

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mike

8:02 am on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Coo-Coo 4 Co-Co Puffs

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Rachel

8:34 am on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Susan, How can one have God in their personal belief system yet support a government that doesn't respect Christianity and its values? Even beyond the gay marriage topic. In electing a leader that is not in support of common christian values (and the majority are christian people) why would we let our government stand for everything against our personal beliefs - that sounds contradictory to me.

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Joyce Denn

8:45 am on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Rachel, there are quite a few religious groups that support same sex marriage - our Constitution forbids the government from favoring any one particular religion, just as it prevents any religion from dictating our secular laws. Again, this is an issue of civil marriage - no church could or would be forced to perform or recognize same sex marriages if the church leaders don't want to.

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Susan

8:51 am on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Rachel, I support a government that lets the individual choose what his or her religious beliefs are, not the government. So do you believe that an atheist can not have good morals or can not believe in treating others equally and with respect?

Joyce Denn

8:43 am on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Rachel, how, exactly, does this remove "God from the world" in any way? What impact could this possibly have on any church, synagogue, temple or mosque? The issue here is CIVIL marriage; religious leaders will still be free to refuse to marry same sex couples if they choose. Allowing same sex couples to marry does not, in any fundamental way, change civil marriage which is, after all, a contract between two consenting adults who are not already close relatives. The only change is that a group of people who were not allowed to enter into that legal contract will now be able to do so.
Consider this: civil divorce has been legal for a very long time in the United States, yet the Catholic church has not been forced to perform or even to recognize divorce. The same will hold true for marriage, thanks to the First Amendment.

As for procreation, there is no fertility requirement for marriage in this country; if procreation were a requirement of marriage, then older women past the age of child bearing should be barred from marriage as well.

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Tag

5:56 am on Friday, May 11, 2012

Perfectly put, Joyce! There are over 1000 laws favoring married persons, denying a class of people from the benefit of those laws is discrimination. Period.

So-either our government leaders should repeal all the laws that favor married persons -or - allow the union of consenting adults, irrespective of his/her sexual orientation. This eliminates the bias/discrimination and let's every religion determine it's marital preferences.

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Markus

7:51 am on Friday, May 11, 2012

Joyce,

Your comments raise another subject. You rightly state that currently civil marriage is between two adults who are not already close relatives. If civil unions (I don't like the term "gay marriage" since the traditional definition of marriage is between those of the opposite sex) between consenting homosexual adults becomes legal, will brothers be able to unite with brothers and sisters with sisters? First cousins? Fathers and sons? It would seem logical to allow that since the reason closely related heterosexual couples are prevented from marrying is because of the potential for congenital issues that would not be present in the above stated cases.

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Joyce Denn

9:25 am on Friday, May 11, 2012

Markus, you bring up that old "slippery slope" argument about brother marrying brother and so on. In point of fact, that is irrelevant; the current definition of civil marriage is a contract between two consenting adults who are not already close relatives because MARRIAGE CREATES A FAMILY RELATIONSHIP. Brothers, sisters, parents and children are already closely related, so they do not need to create a family relationship.
As for first cousins, they are, in fact, allowed to marry in some states:
http://www.ncsl.org/issues-research/human-services/state-laws-regarding-marriages-between-first-cousi.aspx

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Markus

7:10 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Cousin marriage is legal in the District of Columbia and Virginia. Hmmm.... I wonder if there's a connection?

Alex Mundy

9:02 am on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Claiming that someone else's marriage is against your religion is like being angry at someone for eating a donut because you're on a diet. The North Carolina amendment also prohibits cohabitation of heterosexuals. How many of you Bachmann supporters are innocent of that?

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Joyce Denn

10:02 am on Thursday, May 10, 2012

I should point out that the United Church of Christ, a rather large Christian denomination, has been performing same sex marriages since 2005. This would be the same UCC that led the fight against slavery back when many of the religious conservatives of the early nineteenth century were defending it as a divinely and scripturally ordained institution.

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Alex Mundy

10:27 am on Thursday, May 10, 2012

According to God (speaking through the Bible), mere denial of civil rights isn't going far enough for these obvious non-Christians. God says they should be killed.

"If thy brother, the son of thy mother, or thy son, or thy daughter, or the wife of thy bosom, or thy friend, which is as thine own soul, entice thee secretly, saying, "Let us go and serve other gods . . . " thou shalt not consent unto him, nor hearken unto him; neither shall thine eye pity him, neither shalt thou spare, neither shalt thou conceal him. But thou shalt surely kill him; thine hand shall be first upon him to put him to death, and afterwards the hand of all the people. And thou shalt stone him with stones, that he die." -- Dt.13:6-10

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Markus

1:08 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

I'm afraid if you're using the Bible to determine judgement you will have to expand the list beyond homosexuals. In our natural unrepentant state it doesn't bode well for anyone.

1 Corinthians 6:9-10 (NASB)

9 Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 10 nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God.

Revelation 21:8 (NASB)

8 But for the cowardly and unbelieving and abominable and murderers and immoral persons and sorcerers and idolaters and all liars, their part will be in the lake that burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death.”

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Alex Mundy

2:04 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

And let's not forget Hebrews:
12:6 For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth.
12:7 If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not?
12:8 But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons.

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Susan

6:20 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Don't forget this excerpt from a now famous letter:
I do need some advice from you, however, regarding some other elements of
God's Law and how to follow them.

1. When I burn a bull on the altar as a sacrifice, I know it creates a
pleasing odour for the Lord - Lev.1:9. The problem is my neighbours. They
claim the odour is not pleasing to them. Should I smite them?

2. I would like to sell my daughter into slavery, as sanctioned in Exodus
21:7. In this day and age, what do you think would be a fair price for her?

3. I know that I am allowed no contact with a woman while she is in her
period of menstrual uncleanliness - Lev.15: 19-24. The problem is how do I
tell? I have tried asking, but most women take offence.

4. Lev. 25:44 states that I may indeed possess slaves, both male and
female, provided they are purchased from neighbouring nations. A
friend of mine claims that this applies to Mexicans, but not
Canadians. Can you clarify? Why can't I own Canadians?

5. I have a neighbour who insists on working on the Sabbath. Exodus 35:2.
The passage clearly states he should be put to death. Am I morally obligated
to kill him myself?

6. A friend of mine feels that even though eating shellfish is an
abomination - Lev. 11:10, it is a lesser abomination than homosexuality. I
don't agree. Can you settle this? Are there 'degrees' of abomination?

To be cont.

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Susan

6:23 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Continued:

7. Lev. 21:20 states that I may not approach the altar of God if I have a
defect in my sight. I have to admit that I wear reading glasses. Does my
vision have to be 20/20, or is there some wiggle room here?

8. Most of my male friends get their hair trimmed, including the hair
around their temples, even though this is expressly forbidden by Lev.19:27.
How should they die?

9. I know from Lev. 11:6-8 that touching the skin of a dead pig makes me
unclean, but may I still play football if I wear gloves?

10. My uncle has a farm. He violates Lev. 19:19 by planting two different
crops in the same field, as does his wife by wearing garments made of two
different kinds of thread (cotton/polyester blend). He also tends to curse
and blaspheme a lot. Is it really necessary that we go to all the trouble of
getting the whole town together to stone them? - Lev.24:10-16. Couldn't we
just burn them to death at a private family affair like we do with people
who sleep with their in-laws? (Lev. 20:14)

I know you have studied these things extensively and thus enjoy considerable
expertise in such matters, so I am confident you can help.

Thank you again for reminding us that God's word is eternal and unchanging.

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PauliNtheWood

9:06 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Bob K wrote this:
Bob K
10:27 am on Thursday, May 10, 2012

According to God (speaking through the Bible), mere denial of civil rights isn't going far enough for these obvious non-Christians. God says they should be killed.

Bob, this is despicable. using Bible verses to slam other peaceable people is disgusting.

Ever heard the admonition to take the PLANK out of your own eye, before you try to remove the SPECK from your brother's eye.

Take it to heart, pal, take it to heart. God wants you to do that.

Lewis D Dwright

6:49 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Why are my comments being deleted!?

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Shawn Hogendorf

7:02 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

Hi Lewis,
I deleted your comment about Susan because it violated the first bullet of the user agreement. http://stillwater.patch.com/terms

Edward

10:46 pm on Thursday, May 10, 2012

It's hard to take Bachmann seriously. She can't even figure out which country she wants to be a citizen of.

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Greg Peelman

8:02 am on Friday, May 11, 2012

Susan- the laws you bring up are all Old Testament. In other words, God created them so that they would be impossible to follow so that when he sent his Son you would know that the only way to heaven is through Him and not obeying of laws or good deeds. In short, the questions you ask we're completely written off after 400 years passed and the New Testament was introduced. To have the questions in the format that you do you'd really need to position them with regards to verses found in the NT. At least that's what is written in the text.

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Susan

8:32 am on Friday, May 11, 2012

Thanks Greg. I forgot the quote marks on the above comments. It was an open letter to Dr Laura, after she made comments about homosexuality being an abomination as stated in the bible. The point of the letter was that if you wish to claim gays should not be allowed to marry, because of religious (the bible, the word of God) reasons, you need to take a look at all the laws of God that are no longer recognized....why are we required to live by some rules, yet ignore others?

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Joyce Denn

9:29 am on Friday, May 11, 2012

Greg, what did Jesus say about homosexuality? It seems to me that you are picking and choosing among the rules in the Hebrew Scriptures based on your own particular prejudices.
http://www.religioustolerance.org/hom_bibc2.htm

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Alex Mundy

9:55 am on Friday, May 11, 2012

Greg, I didn't realize there was a how-to manual on interpreting the Bible. So do these Old Testament laws that are "impossible to follow" include the Ten Commandments?

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Markus

7:54 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Without going into a long theological discussion, there is a distinction between moral, civil and ceremonial Mosaic law. Jesus said He came not to abolish the Law but to fulfill the Law. Jesus came to do what the Law was incapable of doing.

Matthew 5:17 “Do not think that I came to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I did not come to abolish but to fulfill.

Romans 8: 3,4
3 For what the law could not do, in that it was weak through the flesh, God sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, and for sin, condemned sin in the flesh:

4 That the righteousness of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.

There can be no argument the Bible doesn't condemn homosexual behavior. Joyce, your link is a weak and ridiculous "interpretation". The larger argument is the Bible condemns many behaviors including fornication, adultery, lying, drunkenness, stealing, coveting, worshiping false gods, and the list goes on and on. Why the focus on just one behavior? Jesus was interested in changing peoples hearts, not their behavior. Change the heart and the behavior follows.

The self-appointed moralists refuse to acknowledge that our form of government is essentially neutral on religious matters. Basically, do what you want, just don't hurt anybody. They also evidently don't realize you can't legislate behavior. If you could, no one would be smoking pot, stealing or secretly wishing they had their neighbor's wife and car.

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Joyce Denn

10:02 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Markus, people tread on shaky ground when trying to justify basing civil law on biblical law. Leaving aside the First Amendment separation of church and state which strictly forbids the government from endorsing any religion (and, since different denominations interpret biblical law differently, how should the government choose among those denominations) the New Testament is filled with ambiguities and contradictions; the four gospels even disagree on the details of the birth, death and resurrection of Jesus. As a result, both the Hebrew Scriptures and the New Testament have often been used to justify opposing views by picking and choosing among the contradictory and ambiguous passages; slavery, for example, was both defended and excoriated using quotations from the Bible. Today, different denominations within both Judaism and Christianity defend opposing positions on same sex marriage using biblical quotations.
The fact remains: civil marriage is at issue here; churches, synagogues, mosques and temples will be free to discriminate if they choose to once same sex civil marriages are legalized. Religious arguments should have NO place in this discussion.

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Markus

10:34 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

"Religious arguments should have NO place in this discussion." I agree. The point I was attempting to make in my previous comments was to highlight the apparent oversight of those who wish to invoke Biblical mandates but only concerning one type of sinful behavior.

I don't concur with your analysis about the gospels disagreeing. I'm not sure where you come up with that, but I'll leave that to another discussion since I'm fairly sure I will not convince you otherwise.

We have a secular form of government that promotes religious freedom. It is a basic fundamental right. Issues such as marriage were purposely constitutionally left to the individual states to deal with. The people are by and large religious and that does have an effect on how they view society and what they determine the definition of marriage to be. If the majority of folks in Minnesota prefer to define marriage as between a man and a woman then that is their prerogative. They are free to discriminate as well. We'll see what happens in November.

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Joyce Denn

10:48 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Markus wrote: "I don't concur with your analysis about the gospels disagreeing. I'm not sure where you come up with that..."
I "come up with that" from actually reading and comparing the four gospels. Try it sometime.
As for the people of Minnesota being free to discriminate on the basis of religious beliefs, actually, no, they are not. There is, in the Constitution of the United States, a Supremacy Clause (Article VI) which states that "This Constitution, and the Laws of the United States which shall be made in Pursuance thereof; and all Treaties made, or which shall be made, under the Authority of the United States, shall be the supreme Law of the Land; and the Judges in every State shall be bound thereby, any Thing in the Constitution or Laws of any state to the Contrary notwithstanding."
States are free to make their own laws, but only up to a point; those state laws cannot contravene constitutional requirements. There will certainly come a time when discrimination against same sex couples comes before the Supreme Court as a violation of both the First Amendment and the Equal Protection Clause (14th Amendment) and when SCOTUS finds such discrimination unconstitutional, all state laws and constitutions codifying discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation will be void. If that were not the case, then Jim Crow would still be allowed in southern states.

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Joyce Denn

10:51 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

I would add, Markus, that at one time many states outlawed interracial marriage; Loving v. Virginia overturned all those state definitions of marriage.

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Markus

11:24 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Joyce,

1 Corinthians 1:18 For the word of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God.

We could argue about Biblical accuracy forever, so nuff said about that.

Regarding the 14th amendment, that has probably been more "interpreted" and abused than any other. It is clear that all of the civil war amendments pertained to race however equal protection under the law is a clear mandate. The problem with your argument is that the law regarding marriage currently applies equally. No one is denied the opportunity to marry. You simply have to marry someone of the opposite sex.

Your argument has been tried regarding the progressive income tax. The law discriminates against high income earners, but it is not unconstitutional (at least as far as the court is concerned, I might argue differently). The law discriminates in many cases, but if the law is applied equally the courts have determined them to be constitutional.

I won't argue that this won't appear before the Supreme Court. However a constructionist view of the 1st or 14th amendment would uphold a state amendment regarding the definition of marriage. How is the court going to prove the citizenry is biased religiously?

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Joyce Denn

11:42 am on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Markus, before Loving, everyone had "equal protection" under the law as well - everyone was allowed to marry someone of the same race. In fact, just as some people did not enjoy equal protection before Loving, not everyone has equal protection regarding marriage now, since gays and lesbians are not currently allowed to marry the consenting, unrelated adult of their choice while straight people have that right.
Moreover, since you keep bringing religion into the equation, which particular denomination should have its particular interpretation of the Bible codified in Minnesota's secular Constitution? The Episcopal Church, ELCA and the Twin Cities Jewish Congregations have come out in support of same sex marriage - why do you think our Constitution should discriminate against those religions?

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Markus

12:00 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

I'd just as soon leave religion out of the discussion. I'm only commenting on it because it was brought up in this thread.

I like a secular government with limited enumerated powers that allow me to exercise my religion freely and not impose it's idea of religion or morality on me.

I'm arguing that people can and do discriminate for a myriad of reasons and that's not necessarily a bad thing. I'm a huge advocate of natural law and a fan of Lockean philosophy.

Individuals should be able to discriminate and associate with whom they wish. If I own a restaurant and don't wish to serve a person of another race or sexual orientation, that should be my prerogative. It might make me a fool or a bigot, but I have the right nonetheless. I do not have a monopoly on restaurants and the person of another race is free to choose a restaurant that will serve him. The market will take care of that.

The government on the other hand should not be able to discriminate based on race or sexual preference because it is a monopoly and the person has no other choice. That is why we have the 14th amendment. (The Civil Rights Act was really about preventing institutional racism, not regulating lunch counters that were owned by idiots but I digress.) However, marriage for all of recorded history has been between a man and a woman. Most people have a problem with changing the definition.

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Markus

12:11 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

I have argued in previous posts that people should be able to associate with whom they choose and if that's a homosexual partner, so be it. It doesn't mean I have to like it or even tolerate it. And that's the point I'm trying to make. The people should have the right to determine what marriage is, not a few people in black robes.

If you want to call them civil unions, OK. Again it comes down to freedom of association. But to confer all the privileges of traditional marriage when the people are against it seems kind of odd to me. The old adage of "follow the money" is most likely the real culprit behind the same-sex "marriage" lobby. Those domestic partners really want the law to favor them so they are entitled to more goodies from their employers, in many cases government. Employers offered family benefits originally to be able to pay more in a time of wage controls in order to attract employees. Now it has become expected, even demanded, particularly when it comes to the public sector. If those benefits were removed, I wonder if there would be such a commotion regarding this issue.

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Joyce Denn

1:10 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Markus is, apparently, a Libertarian: 'Individuals should be able to discriminate and associate with whom they wish. If I own a restaurant and don't wish to serve a person of another race or sexual orientation, that should be my prerogative.'
You do, in fact, have the right to associate with whom you wish and religious organizations have the right to restrict membership and association, but a restaurant serves the general public and is not allowed to discriminate on the basis of race or religion. It is very sad that you find that an imposition.
As for your claim that "marriage for all of recorded history has been between a man and a woman," please tell me, how many wives did King Solomon have? The definition of marriage has changed a lot; at one time, women were the possessions of their husbands, purchased from their fathers, not the equal partners of their husbands as understood by most people in the developed world. When I was a child, married women were not allowed to have credit in their own names, and when I was in high school some states defined marriage as a relationship between one man and one woman of the same race.
As for your contention that same sex couples want marriage only for the monetary benefits. Clearly, you have never gotten to know same sex couples, who want to marry for the same reasons heterosexual couples want to marry...(continued)

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Joyce Denn

1:15 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

...that is, same sex couples see marriage as the "gold standard" for love and commitment, they marry because they want stability and security for their loved ones, including their children, and because they want to declare their love and commitment to each other formally in front of friends and family. In other words, same sex couples want to marry for the very same reasons opposite sex couples want to marry. Of course monetary issues enter into it, just as those same issues are taken into consideration by heterosexual couples.
Frankly, our society benefits from promoting stable relationships; allowing same sex couples to marry provides the same benefits to society that heterosexual marriage provides, therefore it is actually in the interest of the state to permit same sex couples to marry.
As for your statement: "I like a secular government with limited enumerated powers that allow me to exercise my religion freely and not impose it's idea of religion or morality on me"; if you truly believed that, you would oppose the marriage amendment, which imposes as narrow religious definition of morality on everyone.

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Markus

2:13 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

"It is very sad that you find that an imposition."

I personally don't find it an imposition. I was simply trying to illustrate my point. I have a business that serves the general public and the only color I care about is green. My clientele is as diverse as the population and I'd be a complete fool to discriminate on the basis of race. I'm only speaking to the broader idea of freedom to associate. As a business owner (an individual), why should I not be free to associate with whom I choose?

Back to the topic at hand. "The powers not delegated to the United States by the Constitution, nor prohibited by it to the States, are reserved to the States respectively, or to the people."

In case you missed it, the point I'm trying to make is whether you don't like it or you think it's unfair, the people have the right to decide what marriage is. Did you see what happened to the Supreme Court justices in IA who arbitrarily decided homosexual "marriage" is a right? The people ousted them for their judicial activism.

Frankly, I have some reservations about making this a constitutional amendment. I think I'd rather see it acted upon legislatively. Even if this amendment passes, particularly if it passes with a slim majority, it still doesn't pass the "consensus" test IMHO. However, I still don't believe anyone's individual rights are being infringed upon were it to pass.

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Joyce Denn

3:30 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

"The powers not delegated to the United States by the Constitution, nor prohibited by it to the States, are reserved to the States respectively, or to the people." And yet, Loving v. Virginia overturned state laws that violated the US Constitution; the people and the states have rights, but making laws that violate the Constitution of the United States is not one of those rights. While we are on that subject, contrary to what you say, judges do not make laws, the legislature makes laws. Judges, however, are tasked with determining the constitutionality of laws that are challenged by the people - laws made by some of the people may be challenged by other people - and, in the words of Chief Justice John Marshall, "a law repugnant to the Constitution is void." The main purpose of the marriage amendment is to prevent a court, in the future, from determining that Minnesota laws restricting marriage to heterosexual couples violates the state Constitution; that state Constitution, however, is subordinate to the US Constitution, which is why the SCOTUS decision overturned the laws of the sovereign state of Virginia.
You speak often about your freedom; how would your freedom be restricted if the civil contract known as marriage is opened up to same sex couples? In what way would that limit your freedom or, indeed, have any effect on your life?
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Joyce Denn

3:32 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Markus wrote: "I still don't believe anyone's individual rights are being infringed upon were it [the marriage amendment] to pass." Really? It would restrict the right of same sex couples to enter into the civil contract known as marriage. It would restrict the rights of religious communities that approve of same sex marriage to perform same sex marriages. What that amendment does is impose the religious dogma of some on others who do not believe in that dogma...and you don't find that restrictive of individual rights? Seriously?

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Markus

5:00 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

Joyce,

You still don't understand. I'm not even advocating for or against the amendment. I'm advocating for the people's right to make it. I have argued everyone should be able to associate freely, but that does not necessarily mean they have a right to be "married" particularly since the law already precludes them from doing so and has for a long time.

Many believe homosexuality to be unnatural and consider particularly the act of male homosexual sex an unhealthy behavior. We all know the incidence of aids is many times higher among homosexual men than the general population. I know a doctor who has treated many men in the ER that had severe damage to the posterior region after participating in the act. Particularly young men and even boys. Not accepting it as normal is not necessarily a religious concept.

For all intents and purposes the courts make law because they override the will of the people. Sometimes maybe rightly, usually not. Because of judicial review the judiciary has essentially become another arm of the legislature particularly when it comes to 10th amendment issues. Roe vs Wade is a classic example of judicial activism. Somehow reading the right to privacy into the constitution, then deciding the states have no jurisdiction regarding restricting abortion is as close to making law as you can get.

"a law repugnant to the Constitution is void" How can you quote that with a straight face and say Obamacare is good law?

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PauliNtheWood

9:08 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Bob K wrote this:
Bob K
9:55 am on Friday, May 11, 2012

Greg, I didn't realize there was a how-to manual on interpreting the Bible. So do these Old Testament laws that are "impossible to follow" include the Ten Commandments?
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Bob, if you don't think the Bible needs to be taken in its correct context, and is always subject to interpretation, then you will always and forever MISinterpret the Bible, and never learn anything from it.

Your view shows an extreme ignorance of religion, and the Bible.

Susan

6:02 pm on Saturday, May 12, 2012

I have found this a very interesting read today, and it had me doing more reading on the subject. I found this, and although it is an opinion piece, I think there are some great points made here: http://www.wadlin.com/pf_bans.htm

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Joyce Denn

9:50 am on Sunday, May 13, 2012

Markus, you've brought up a lot of issues, so I'll try to address each one. I will, however, leave a discussion of the ACA for another time, since it is not even tangential to the subject here. Suffice it to say that buying health care is nothing like buying broccoli since everyone has to utilize health care at some point, and one person's not having health insurance affects the costs of my health care.
You say the judiciary, in pronouncing a law unconstitutional, violates the will of the people. It does so rightly - basic civil rights, as outlined in the Constitution of the United States, are not meant to be put to popular vote. The Constitution, by its very nature, protects the minority from the tyranny of the majority. As for the judiciary becoming "another arm of the legislature," no, the judiciary does not originate law, it addresses the constitutionality of laws already in existence. The judiciary, by the way, is a coequal branch of government, not subsidiary to the legislature. As for Roe v. Wade, it might interest you to know that the right to privacy did not originate with that case, it originated with Griswold v. Connecticut, which found that a state did not have the right to outlaw contraception for married couples. If the courts decide that there is no right to privacy in the Constitution, then states will be free to outlaw contraception if they so choose...

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Joyce Denn

9:58 am on Sunday, May 13, 2012

...As for people finding homosexual sexual practices "icky" or unhealthful, Lawrence v. Texas settled that issue as being none of our business. The fact is, heterosexual couples also indulge in anal sex - are you in favor of policing private consensual sex? What do you think about lesbian sexual behavior? Should we allow lesbians to marry, but not homosexual men, based on the kinds of sex they have? Moreover, forbidding same sex couples from marrying will not stop them from having sexual relations, nor does it stop them from having children. Are you in favor of the involuntary sterilization of gays and lesbians to prevent them from having children? How about "gelding" all male homosexuals so they won't have sexual intercourse? Seriously, that is where that sort of reasoning leads.
As for marriage as a right, the Supreme Court has declared in at least 7 cases that marriage is a basic civil right. So far, the only reasons I've seen people give for barring same sex marriage is that they find the idea "icky" or because their particular religious denomination forbids it; neither of those reasons should be sufficient to bar a particular group from enjoying the civil rights guaranteed to everyone else. The state must have a compelling reason to prevent a group from enjoying basic civil rights, like marriage. There is no compelling reason to prevent same sex couples from marrying;...

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Joyce Denn

10:03 am on Sunday, May 13, 2012

...on the contrary, there are very strong reasons for allowing same sex couples to marry, not the least of which being that marriage is a basic civil right, as the Supreme Court has declared. In addition, stable families are beneficial to society, so the state has an interest in promoting them. Moreover, since same sex couples have children, it is beneficial both to those children and to society in general to grant those children the protections already afforded the children of heterosexual couples. Seriously, Markus - can you explain why the children of same sex couples should be denied the rights and protections given to the children of heterosexual couples?
Dahlia Lithwick, a columnist who focuses on judicial decisions, recently wrote:
'The Supreme Court recognized, in its landmark 1967 decision in Loving v. Virginia that the “right to marry is of fundamental importance for all individuals” and “one of the vital personal rights essential to the orderly pursuit of happiness.” After Loving, marriage is deemed a “fundamental freedom” protected by the constitution, and states cannot deny an individual of this basic right without an exceedingly good reason. If it’s not a good enough reason for a state to prohibit someone from getting married because he committed a crime or failed to pay child support, then it’s clearly not enough that he happens to be gay.' Link to follow:

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Markus

6:43 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

"You say the judiciary, in pronouncing a law unconstitutional, violates the will of the people. It does so rightly - basic civil rights, as outlined in the Constitution of the United States, are not meant to be put to popular vote."

I said "for all intents and purposes the courts make law because they override the will of the people." and "the judiciary has essentially become another arm of the legislature". FDR threatened to "pack the court" if the legislature didn't go along with his New Deal initiatives. Since then the left and the right have sought to essentially pack the court with like minded individuals who would "interpret" the constitution in their favor. Hamilton said "the judiciary is beyond comparison the weakest of the three departments of power" and "there is no liberty, if the power of judging be not separated from the legislative and executive powers". If Hamilton were alive today he would likely consider the judiciary branch too political and the executive branch too powerful. Rather than being checks on each other, the branches are in cahoots with one another.

You implied that the people preventing gays from marrying would violate the first amendment on religious grounds. My remarks were meant to illustrate that there are more than religious reasons for opposing gay marriage.

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Markus

6:45 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

All that being said, after thinking this through, I will concede some of your points as being legitimate in our secular republican form of government, particularly this:
"The Constitution, by its very nature, protects the minority from the tyranny of the majority." That is absolutely true, however keep in mind the individual is the smallest minority and ultimately should be protected from the majority when it comes to basic rights. The framers understood our basic rights to be inherent and not subject to the whims of the majority.

Ron Paul probably articulates the libertarian’s position better than anyone in his book “Liberty Defined”.
"I'd like to settle the debate by turning it into a First Amendment Issue: the right of free speech. Everyone can have his or her own definition of what marriage means, and if an agreement or contract is reached by the participants, it will qualify as a civil contract if desired.

The supercharged emotions are on both extremes of the issue, because neither extreme accepts the principles of a free society. One side [anti-gay marriage] is all too willing to have the state use the law to force a narrow definition of marriage on everyone...The other side-a minority opinion-wants the law to help them gain social acceptance even though this is impossible for law to achieve. Those who seek social acceptance of gay marriage are also motivated by the desire to force government and private entities to provide spousal benefits.”

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Markus

6:46 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

This would require the government get out of the marriage business and leave it to the individual parties to determine what type of association they wish to have and contract as such. This could also reform divorce law as parties could determine ahead of time contractually what happens when one party breaks the contract and the courts could enforce the contracts. Why would this not be an acceptable way for both sides to get what they want?

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Joyce Denn

6:12 am on Monday, May 14, 2012

Markus, you talk a lot about the rights of the individual. Has it never occurred to you that every group seeking equal rights is made up entirely of individuals? When you deny homosexuals the right the marry the unrelated consenting adult of their choice, you are denying each and every INDIVIDUAL within that group the basic civil right of marriage.
As for Ron Paul's suggestion that each couple draw up its own contract - what a bonanza for the legal profession! How many people have the funds to pay a lawyer $300+/hour to draw up such an elaborate contract? Paul would exclude everyone but the wealthy from marriage. Moreover, since the state has an interest in promoting stable families and in protecting children, there would have to be certain state mandated minimum requirements for said contracts; why not leave civil marriage as it is and simply allow same sex couples to sign on? Allowing same sex couples to marry would not change the definition of civil marriage one whit - it would remain a legally binding contract between two unrelated consenting adults.

As for social acceptance, we don't have thought police in this country, we cannot force people to change their prejudices. We can, however, enforce actions such as discrimination; there are no longer separate drinking fountains for people of different races, and help-wanted ads no longer can say, "Jews need not apply." You don't have to like it, you just can't act on your prejudices.

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Markus

8:41 am on Monday, May 14, 2012

Joyce,

You're a skilled debater. We could go on forever but frankly you're wearing me down. I will concede you have some valid arguments, some I obviously take issue with. For me to be consistent, I would at least reluctantly have to agree with some of your points particularly regarding equal protection and the individual pursuit of happiness. Obviously we have different worldviews, but that's what makes it interesting, right?

Regarding the marriage amendment, it will have to run it's course. I doubt we'll know the ultimate outcome of it for years. It would be highly unlikely there will not be a court challenge if it passes. To be honest, I struggle with it. Balancing my Biblical convictions with my libertarian views regarding government is a challenge at times. I love Ayn Rand's political philosophy but I struggle with the fact she was an avowed atheist. The framers evidently wrestled with those ideas as well, but the First Amendment really solves the dilemma.

"How many people have the funds to pay a lawyer $300+/hour?" Many more if we didn't have a new Vikings stadium.

"we don't have thought police in this country,". Yet. We do punish crime differently based on thought however so maybe even that is arguable.

Edward

5:03 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

A famous conservative explains his position on gay marriage:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2MGNfYKiY7A

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Joyce Denn

5:17 pm on Monday, May 14, 2012

Markus wrote: "we don't have thought police in this country,". Yet. We do punish crime differently based on thought however so maybe even that is arguable."
Are you suggesting premeditated murder and manslaughter should have the same consequences? Motivation matters in criminal cases; consider this: a hate crime victimizes not just the immediate target but an entire community as well. The purpose of a hate crime is to intimidate a group of people, so of course it needs to be treated differently from a crime that targets only one individual, just as murder in the first degree needs to be treated differently from manslaughter. Again, we do not have thought police, people are free to be as prejudiced and as hate-filled as they want as long as they do not act on that hate; once they act, however, motivation plays a part in determining how the crime is treated.
As for Ayn Rand, not only was she a dreadful writer, her philosophy is appalling and un-American; we were not founded on the philosophy of "each man for himself"; if we were, there would be no reference to the "general welfare" in the preamble to the Constitution. A republican form of government such as ours is predicated on the idea of looking out for one another.

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Markus

10:15 pm on Monday, May 14, 2012

Crimes of intent and crimes of passion have precedents of being prosecuted differently. To prosecute someone differently because of their attitude while they were committing the crime seems ludicrous. First degree murder is the same whether you had a racial prejudice or not while acting on your intention.

Regarding Ayn Rand's philosophy equating rational self interest to "each man for himself" is a little bit of a stretch. She postulated that a person had no real value to themselves or anyone else without first having a rational self interest. As to her being a dreadful writer, I suppose the premise of "Atlas Shrugged" wouldn't appeal to someone who advocates for social justice.

As to your reference to "General Welfare", Madison addressed the abuse of that clause in Federalist #41.

"No stronger proof could be given of the distress under which these writers labor for objections, than their stooping to such a misconstruction…. Had no other enumeration or definition of the powers of the Congress been found in the Constitution, than the general expressions just cited, the authors of the objection might have had some color for it"

His point being if the general welfare clause authorized the congress to do anything it wanted, why enumerate the other 17 powers? A republican form of government is based on the idea that we are a nation of laws respecting basic individual rights not subject to the whims of the majority. Not some form of collective altruism.

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Markus

9:54 am on Tuesday, May 15, 2012

The problem with her argument is that she implies every social institution must be ordained by government and that taxes are inherently good.

"Consider our need for education from kindergarten through universities, a stable monetary system, laws that protect property, courts to adjudicate disputes, rules to provide an even playing field in markets, hospitals, roads, airports, bridges, defense from predators whether criminal or military, development costs for technological innovations such as the Internet and modern medicines, libraries, parks and clean beaches."

Some of these are no doubt legitimate government functions, however those can generally be accomplished at the local governmental level and many of those listed with voluntary associations and cooperation. If you want to make a distinction between local governments vs. central government as being more "voluntary" associations, I might concede that, but having a massive central government dictate everything from education to road building to the delivery of health care is anathema to those who value freedom.

Not all government is bad and libertarians and Rand acknowledge(d) that. Locke advocated life, liberty and estate based on the natural law that those rights are inherent. Legitimate government should recognize those rights and protect the individual against force or fraud from those who would violate those rights.

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Joyce Denn

4:15 pm on Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Markus, the author does not claim that EVERY social institution MUST be ordained by the government - you are reading more into it than is actually there. But, in a republican form of government, the government and the citizens are not truly separable, since we are represented by the government, and those representatives are answerable to their actions at election time - ideally, anyway. Corruption, influence peddling, bribery, vote buying, of course, all take place, especially when there is a huge income disparity and decisions like Citizens United allow the super wealthy to exert an enormous influence on elections.
I would agree that some things are best left to local government - education is a case in point, though state-wide standards are helpful in maintaining quality across districts. Moreover, while some states have state-wide funding for schools, others rely exclusively on real-estate taxes, which results in a huge disparity in the quality of schools in wealthy as opposed to lower-income areas.
There are some areas, however, where the federal government MUST play a strong role, notably civil rights; if that were left up to the states, we'd still have bans on interracial marriage and school segregation in some states.

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Kris Janisch

1:55 pm on Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Someone mentioned this post to me today and likened it to those who were against civil rights. How will this debate be viewed 50 years from now? Or will the debate continue?

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Joyce Denn

4:09 pm on Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Kris, I was in high school and college during the civil rights movement of the '60s, so I remember it well; people who opposed equal rights for African Americans back then probably still do so, the only difference being they now have to use "coded" language to express their bigotry. Think, for example, of the gun targets recently sold which were shaped like a young man in a hoodie holding skittles and a bottle of iced tea - racist? Absolutely.
Looking at demographics, we can predict that same sex marriage will be as accepted in 50 years as interracial marriage is now, that is, the bigots will still oppose it, but they will no longer be able to do so openly, and their numbers will dwindle as the older generations die. For those who oppose same sex marriage for reasons other than bigotry (fear of what it will do to "traditional" marriages, for example) time will show them that same sex marriage, far from having a deleterious effect on the institution, will in all likelihood strengthen marriage. Familiarity does not breed contempt, it creates understanding and acceptance.

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Susan

4:37 pm on Tuesday, May 15, 2012

How in the world would a gay couple's marriage affect my marriage? This is the worst excuse I have heard so far from the naysayers. Their real issues are usually with something like what Joyce and Markus pointed out before...some people find it icky. Well, if you find it icky, then YOU shouldn't do it.

I heard a statistic yesterday: There are currently 1,100 federal laws that favor a married couple, and not necessarily civil unions. Because of these laws, I say it is a federal civil rights issue.

Let the churches say no, let those with religion convictions say it's not for them, but the government should say yes, and give every law abiding, consenting adult the same rights.

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Joyce Denn

5:17 pm on Tuesday, May 15, 2012

I once heard someone say that if same sex marriages should be banned because people find gay sex "icky," then our parents' marriages should also be banned for the same reason.

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Susan

5:29 pm on Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Funny....but of-course no one will admit that is why they oppose gay marriage. As Kris, you, and I have all pointed out here, the same arguments were used for interracial marriage. It's sad that we have to wait for a generation to die off for this to be accepted.

Avb

2:24 am on Monday, July 30, 2012

It disturbs me that his woman is said to represent my beliefs and morals. She has every right to exercise her freedom of speech but her feelings are not those of all Minnesotans. My faith tells me that love is the greatest thing we were given in this world. We are called to share this love with others. If we are lucky we will meet someone with whom that love is shared and deepens. Marriage is the only word, the only symbol and tradition we have as a culture that truly represents a lasting steadfast commitment in love. Nothing else will suffice. As citizens of this great state and nation we should embrace couples, no matter the gender, who wish to form such a bond.

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