UPDATED: Stillwater Man Remains Critical after Assault at Pirate Bar
Adam McCloud, 29, of Stillwater, remains in critical condition after being assaulted last week in the Pirate Bar at Smalley’s Caribbean Barbeque. A 22-year-old Stillwater man was arrested Monday, and remains in jail pending first-degree assault charges.
A 29-year-old Stillwater man is on life support after being assaulted last week in the Pirate Bar at Smalley’s Caribbean Barbeque.
Police were called to a report of an assault in the Pirate Bar at about 2 a.m. on Sept. 29, Stillwater Police Sgt. Jeff Stender said.
When officers arrived they found Adam McCloud lying on the ground, conscious, but friends told police he had been knocked out.
McCloud, a Stillwater resident and bartender at Acapulco Restaurant, is in "very critical condition," his brother-in-law Larry Odebrecht told Stillwater Patch Tuesday afternoon. He is in a chemical-induced coma, not able to speak with his family.
Click here to view Adam McCloud's CaringBridge site.
McCloud has gone “continually downhill” since he got to the hospital early Friday morning, Odebrecht said. He was transferred from Lakeview Hospital to Regions, where his condition “continues to get worse.”
Odebrecht, a Stillwater resident, describes McCloud as a “really fun, sweet guy and a fantastic uncle to my kids.”
Shortly after the assault, a 22-year-old Stillwater man was named a suspect in the assault, but he was not arrested.
On Monday afternoon, Eric Richard, 22, of Stillwater, was arrested, according to jail records, and remains in custody pending first-degree assault charges while police continue to investigate the incident.
McCloud and Richard did not know each other, police told the Pioneer Press, but they had been interacting throughout the evening.
It appears that after the victim was struck, he fell to the ground and hit his head, Stender said. At this point in the investigation police believe only two men were involved in the incident—and it does not appear that a weapon was used in the assault.
“This act of senseless violence has ruined Adam’s life, the life of the attacker and the families of both," Odebrecht said. “I know our family hopes others will learn from this, and not make the same mistake.”
UPDATED FROM: Monday, 9 p.m.
A 29-year-old Stillwater man is in critical condition after being assaulted last week in the Pirate Bar at Smalley’s Caribbean Barbeque.
Police were called to a report of an assault in the Pirate Bar at about 2 a.m. on Sept. 29, Stillwater Police Sgt. Jeff Stender said. When officers arrived they found a 31-year-old Stillwater man lying on the ground, conscious but friends told police he had been knocked out.
At that time a 22-year-old Stillwater man was named a suspect in the assault, but he was not arrested.
The 29-year-old man was transported to the hospital by medics—and at that time—his injuries were thought to be “inconsequential,” Stender said.
“Over the weekend,” Stender said, “the victim took a turn for the worse.”
As of Monday night, the 29-year-old Stillwater man was in critical condition with an uncertain prognosis, Stender said. He is being treated for severe head trauma at Regions Hospital.
The 22-year-old man was arrested on Monday afternoon, Stender said, and remains in Washington County Jail pending first-degree assault charges while police continue to investigate the incident.
According to jail booking records, Eric Richard, 22, of Stillwater, is being held in jail on suspicion of assault.
It appears that after the victim was struck, he fell to the ground and hit his head, Stender said. At this point in the investigation police believe only two men were involved in the incident—and it does not appear that a weapon was used in the assault.
Police believe the Washington County Attorney’s Office will file assault charges against the 21-year-old Stillwater man before noon on Wednesday.
The names of the two men involved in the incident have not yet been released. Check back for more information as it is made available.
Carbon Bigfuut
8:37 am on Tuesday, October 2, 2012
Is this 2 assaults at Smalley's in the same week?
Shawn Hogendorf
9:19 am on Tuesday, October 2, 2012
Hi Carbon: These two reports span two weeks. This one happened Thursday, the other was Sept. 21.
Gloria K
12:40 pm on Tuesday, October 2, 2012
Hmmm.... It wasn't that long ago that the city council determined a rooftop bar permit would not be granted to Rafters because of it's bad reputation and excessive fights. How does the council plan on fixing the problem at Smalley's? Shut them down?
Anna Dancer
7:44 am on Friday, October 5, 2012
Shutting Down Smalley's is not the answer. This could have happened at any establishment. Smalley's has issued a statement in regards to this issue and plan on better training for their bouncers and bartenders alike. I dont see how this act should reflect on Smalley, he's a great bar owner, and a responsible man.
Susan
12:45 pm on Tuesday, October 2, 2012
I think it was one council member who questioned the permit, but permission was granted for rooftop dining. Although this situation is about personal responsibility, being as its a good bet that alcohol was involved, it may be that Smalley's needs to review their policy IF these people were over served.
Helmut Thick
3:18 pm on Tuesday, October 2, 2012
Sillwater is turning into a dump like Minneapolis!
Susan Akers
4:36 pm on Tuesday, October 2, 2012
Do you live there ? If not dont think you have the right to make that comment. I feel Stillwater is a beautiful place. I feel if some of the bars down there are told that the town will no longer tolerate the over serving of alcohol or their permit will be taken away, things would calm down around there..
Helmut Thick
11:12 am on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Yes I do live there and I think the town is going down the tubes just like Minneapolis is!!!
Susan
8:45 pm on Tuesday, October 2, 2012
My heart goes out to this man and his family. I am sure the pain they must be feeling is nearly unbearable. Hang in there Adam, we are sending positive thoughts and energy to you and your family.
Sean C.
9:09 am on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
I want to know why the family is requesting all of the videos on the internet (which I can't seem to find) to be taken down, because it would impede a fair and impartial jury if this goes to trial. Does the video show Adam disregarding a well known law of physics? The biiger they are, the harder they punch. Hmmmmm. Smells a little fishy to me. Bad call on the families part asking for donations on the Caring Bridge page and putting that request front and center. Anyone with half a brain could see through that one. I wouldnt donate a penny to this kid....he should have walked away.
Eric Coffman
10:15 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Maybe because it's completely disrespectful to have the video posted for people to watch and gauk at? The video needn't be on the internet for it to be useful for prosecutors... wtf
mary e
3:07 pm on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Why are you so judgmental? For all you know, he did walk away and was in fact "sucker-punched". Making comments like "he should have walked away" when you have no idea what actually happened serves no purpose.
Requesting the video be taken down is to ensure the jury pool is not influenced by seeing it before a trial, which could make it difficult to find impartial jurors. This would be true regardless of what is actually on the video, or who it implicates. Keeping it off the internet does not mean it wouldn't be used at trial, it just helps the legal system get there.
And try to imagine how you would feel if you were in the hospital while your son is dying and the video of how he got there was all over the internet? That has nothing to do with guilt, but with compassion for people who are in pain. And BTW, the family is not contributing anything to these comments, they are not accusing anyone of anything, they are just trying to deal with an unbearable situation.
And as you now know, the family was not asking for donations, so your criticism of them was based on not taking the time to find out all the facts. Caring Bridge was used in addition to Facebook because (believe it or not) not everyone is on Facebook.
I agree we should not rush to judgement, but I think your comments were also a rush to judgement. In the future, maybe do what you are telling everyone else to do and don't make assumptions about what happened.
Sean C.
3:23 pm on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Mary,
I'm exhausted from explaining my position on here to people who struggle with impersonal communications.
1: I am aware that taking the video off the internet does not mean it won't be used at at trial. However, if you are going to try and say with a straight face that having the public see an innocent man savagely assaulted will do anything but help your case in todays America, you are very follish and laughably simple minded.
2. The reason I made the comment about walking away is because.......wait for it...........THE POLICE SAID THE MEN "INTERACTED" ALL NIGHT!!!! It's in the article. So before you get preachy, read what I said. So yes, both parties could have "walked away", they chose not to, now two lives are ended. Jesus Christ!
If you are too sensetive about this (which I can totally understand if you are close to it), stay out of a public discussion forum and stick to Caring Bridge.
Susan
3:29 pm on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Sean, at the risk of being on the receiving end of your frustration again, I am going to say one more thing here. Stillwater is not a large city. There are a lot of friends, family, and co-workers that will be coming here to look for information. Every time you defend your comments, you look worse and only agitate an already bad situation. Please stop, better yet, remove your ignorant and accusatory comments (I said the comments, not you), and move on. Thank you for your consideration.
mary e
5:28 pm on Thursday, October 4, 2012
I understand your position completely, so you don't have to exhaust yourself further by trying to explain again or trying to convince me why your assumptions are valid.
I am not too sensitive to this. I am simply asking you to do what you claim to want everyone else to do - don't make assumptions and judgements without the facts, even if you think your assumption is the only possible scenario. There is always another one. Go back and read your first comment which is very judgmental without all the facts.
1. I only brought this up because of the motives you assigned to the family without knowing anything about them or about what the police advised. You could have expressed your opinion without criticising them. Seeing a video may put the public on your side, but it doesn't help your case since that is decided in court, where it will be seen anyway. I think I am anything but foolish and simpleminded but if you prefer to think that anyone who disagrees with you is stupid that is fine.
2. Interacting is not necessarily negative, it could just be conversation. You are assuming they had negative interaction, but you don't know that. Or if it was negative, Adam could have walked away and then been hit. YOU DON'T KNOW if it was unprovoked. I am not being preachy, just saying you should practice what you preach. You say you want to see the whole story come out before judgement is passed - that should apply to both men involved. The truth can be a surprise, even to you.
Eric Coffman
6:14 pm on Thursday, October 4, 2012
hallelujah mary
Shawn Hogendorf
9:23 am on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Hey Sean C: The donation request that is front and center on the page is actually for CaringBridge.org, not Mr. McCloud. The donation would go to the nonprofit that hosts CaringBridge websites, so they can continue to provide the service for free.
Carbon Bigfuut
9:29 am on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
So who is the guy in the picture - the attacker or the attackee?
Sean C.
9:51 am on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
He is the alleged attacker. That is not fair....I should say he is not the one in the hospital.
Shawn Hogendorf
10:09 am on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Sean C. is correct, he is the alleged attacker--my caption must not have been saved. I added that info, Carbon.
Sean C.
9:38 am on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Ok, I'll admit my ignorance re: the money chain. Am I wrong in assuming that the McCloud page is not just an awareness announcement? Are you saying that he will not have access to funds raised by the nonprof? My point is simply this, I would rather see money EXCLUSIVELY going towards kids afflicted with illness or injuries, a father who was struck by a driver while doing road construction, a mother who contracted an illness while working as a nurse. This looks, admittedly at face value, like two drunk idiots got into it and one got the better of the other. Not a charitable cause in my opinion, not even one that I would feel proud publicly advocating if this were my young brother.This was clearly not an unprovoked attack. The police said they had been "interacting" all night. He or his friends had to have had at least one opportunity to change this outcome, as did Eric Richard.
Susan Akers
9:52 am on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Ok Sean I've read both of your comments, I wonder how old you are and if you've ever lost somebody in your life or almost lost somebody ? I've been thru the same thing when A puck teenager decided to punch my mom in the face and then as my dad was catching her before she hit the cement this person decided to sucker punch my dad, he landed in ICU with same injury as Adam.. I dont care who started what and why !! To sucker punch him is the lowest thing a person could do !!! I also feeling Smalleys should have stepped in before it got this far !!!
Sean C.
10:02 am on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Susan, first off, your implications regarding my age and what I have and have not lost are not relevent (and are extremely far from accurate). Secondly, you validate my argument. You use the word "sucker punch". Why do you assume Mr. Richard sucker punched him. We have two pieces of information to suggest this was not the case. 1: The police say the two men had been "interacting" all night.
2: Why would the family be seeking the publics help in removing the video of the event from the internet in order to ensure an impartial jury? If my family member or your father had been "sucker punched" (your words) wouldn't you want the world, the court of public opinion to have witnessed such a cowardly, ungentlemanly attack? Come on Susan, do you really think I would have an issue with the family asking for help if this man had been using an ATM machine when out of nowhere he was hit with a bat and robbed. Logic, objective reasoning, deductive reasoning....take emotions and personal history out of the issue here. It has no place, look at the information provided.
Sean C.
10:10 am on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
And by the way, I hope the man makes a full recovery. I truly do. My issue is with asking for donations before all the facts come out in a criminal case. If we find out that Mr. McCloud was as much of the problem as the victim, I would hate to take resources, prayers, valuable web page space away from somebody who is suffering from something that was truly out of their hands.
Shawn Hogendorf
10:21 am on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Sean, the money doesn't go toward Mr. McCloud. Here's a link that explains where the money goes if you click on the donate button on CaringBridge: http://www.caringbridge.org/waystogive
Shawn Hogendorf
10:17 am on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Lets remember police have not yet released all of the information in this incident. A complaint may be filed today, according to police, which will give a better understanding of what police believe happened that night.
Susan
10:28 am on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
The judgment here is a little premature. We will find out what happened that night, but until then, let's remember that both of these men have families who are hurting and they certainly hold no blame.
Sean C.
10:39 am on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Thanks Shawn. I had never heard of Caring Bridge. I thought since they also were using a facebook page to keep interested parties updated, that this site was used to collect support for his medical costs. I am completely up to speed now with its roll. Has a site been set up for donating to his medical expenses? I am a right of center citizen, and I am concerned that the outpouring of opinion in this case(at least from what I have seen here) is premature. This is going to be a criminal case, and so far, simply because McCloud is in such serious condition, it sounds as if he is being portrayed as the victim. I think criminal cases should be handled responsibly regardless of the outcome of personal health. A perpetrator can easily become the victim, just as the intended victim can become the aggressor. Honestly, thank you for squaring me away on the role of Caring Bridge.
Sean C.
10:41 am on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Who blamed the families, Susan?
Sean C.
10:45 am on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Susan, you replied directly to Adam McClouds family and to him directly. If you truly believe the facts remain unclear, why haven't you made an assumption that Mr. Richard is suffering after this event? Why are you only sending your thoughts and prayers to the McClouds? How do you know that McCloud was not the aggressor, simply because of the outcome?
Anna Dancer
7:49 am on Friday, October 5, 2012
Again, Stillwater is a small community. Anybody that knows Adam or his family knows that he was not, in fact, the aggressor.
Even if I didn't know him, or his family... look at that guy! Would you pick a fight with him? Probably not.
Susan
10:54 am on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
I didn't say anyone blamed the family. My point is that there are families, who are hurting, involved here. To start questioning motives is only hurting them at this point. There is a man in critical condition, before we start jumping to conclusions and discounting worry for his health, let's wait to get the facts, and no, I am not saying that you have done these specific things, but a little compassion is called for.
Susan
11:00 am on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Sean, my last comment was posted before I saw your last.
You know what, never mind, this is clearly going nowhere.
Sean C.
11:11 am on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
I agree this is going nowhere. But in the age of compassion that every delicate individual seems to need these days. I am glad that I am raising a son who will understand that actions have consequences. And no matter how much public support, and "compassion" you get from strangers who know nothing about you, you will still be in critical condition. Maybe the compassionate partcipation trophy generation needs to step aside and make way for the reality of permanence movement, where we show our kids and neighbors that dead is dead....forever. And paralyzed is paralyzed....forever. I'd rather see a community of proactively realistic people being honest, no matter how much it hurts, than reactively compassionate. Seriously people, when does this crap end? When does it become OK to call a spade a spade and say....these were two drunk idiots who made their beds....enjoy it. Victims and fools are not one in the same. These were fools.
mary e
5:46 pm on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Perhaps it becomes OK to say it when you know that is what actually happened. Once again, you are making assumptions and judgements - two drunk idiots and fools? Just because someone is in a bar, or even drunk, does not make him an idiot or a fool (although I'm sure you disagree - no response necessary).
Why are you so angry that people are expressing compassion? That does not necessarily mean they are making a judgement as to guilt or innocence. I think this family knows very well that dead is dead forever. Having this kind of hateful comment out there won't make it any more real to them.
Just because someone expresses compassion, you are assuming they don't realize actions have consequences? I am glad you are raising a son who will understand that actions have consequences, but I resent you assuming this family did not. You don't know anything about them, or about what happened, but that doesn't stop you from criticising them. I hope you are never in a situation where people make public assumptions about your son's behaviour without knowing anything about him or the circumstances. Actions do have consequences, but not all consequences are foreseeable.
Seriously, when does this crap end - making assumptions based on no real information so you can criticize everyone else? I think it is OK now to call a spade a spade and I say - you should base your comments on what you know, not on what you assume is true.
Lindsey Grenell
12:41 pm on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Okay you guys, lets remember the important part of this.. Adam is fighting for his life who cares about how drunk they are or what had started the fight. Adam is the VICTIM he is not a fool, in Eric Richards mug shot he didnt seem to have any injuries, which makes Richards the predator and McCloud the VICTIM. Sean take your ignorance somewhere else.
Sean C.
8:59 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
From the mouth of someone truly naive. I am glad you do not run the justice system in America. Seiously? He doesn't appear to have any injuries in his mugshot? You are beyond moronic in your thinking. And you clearly tip your hand at the prejudice racist you clearly are.
The Truth
3:12 am on Friday, December 14, 2012
Lindsey Would know about being the VICTIM she acts like she is one all the time. She is an alcoholic with two DWIs and multiple probation violations and the mother of two children yet she has as soon as June of this year failed a UA for elicit drug use. Just look her up on MNCIS.
Matt H.
2:24 pm on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Thank you Lindsey, Adam is not the kind of guy to start a fight in any situation. Also, the reason the family doesn't want the video out there is that lawyers must find a jury that hasn't seen it yet. It has nothing to do with what's on the video.
Jane Neumiller-Bustad
5:42 pm on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
We know Adam from watching so many sporting events at Acapulco - he is a very friendly, outgoing guy who always gave us a warm welcome and treated us with great warmth. He's always seemed like a great guy, and we usually walked out with a smile whenever he was our bartender. Our hearts go out to his family and we are praying for Adam's recovery. And, we've followed the health updates of several friends and acquaintances via Caring Bridge. They do a terrific job of helping families keep people informed about their loved one's health condition. The site means family and friends don't have to send out constant updates to lots of people. They can focus on helping their loved one recover.
Carlos mata
11:19 pm on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
I work in the same company with hem, I only got to see hem a couple times and he was really nice to everybody,hope everything gets better for hem he has a life still to live and enjoy, I'm Carlos mata from coon rapids Acapulco,get better buddy!!!
MyBrainIsGod
11:52 pm on Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Susan and Sean need to get in on and get it over with (in hopes of a full recovery)
Susan
9:36 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Thanks for the reminder, Shawn. I have deleted two comments that might not be appropriate.
Just for the record, and without giving too much information, I do happen to know what is going on and what happened. This is a tragedy on many different levels. Judgment without all the information is disingenuous and destructive.
Sean C.
9:54 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Not that I started the name calling, but I will remove my last post as well. I think it is important that someone acts as the voice of impartial judgement for Mr. Richard. The idea of innocent until proven guuilty has oviously been thrown out the window in Stillwater, lovely and enlightened town I see.
Randy Marsh
12:12 pm on Thursday, October 4, 2012
As long as you bring it up Sean, I thought news outlets usually waited to name people who have not been charged unless it is a public official so I am wondering what the extenuating circumstances are in this case, other than perhaps the alleged killer being black.
Susan
12:16 pm on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Randy, yesterday we had the mug shot of a white man on our home page. I am going to beg you to leave this alone.
Randy Marsh
12:21 pm on Thursday, October 4, 2012
OK, I don't think Patch is racist or anything like that, but I hope somebody will respond as to why some names are released before charging and others are not. Sorry to have stupidly implied otherwise above and I'm confident there is a reason for this apparent inconsistency, but would just like to know what it is.
Shawn Hogendorf
12:21 pm on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Jail booking reports are public information, Randy. Race has nothing to do with it.
Randy Marsh
12:24 pm on Thursday, October 4, 2012
I'm sure that is the case, Shawn, but do you always report the names of people who have been arrested or booked but have not been charged, even if it seems certain they are forthcoming?
Shawn Hogendorf
12:41 pm on Thursday, October 4, 2012
You raise a valid point, Randy, and generally speaking I don't name suspects until they are charged. However, I made an exception in this situation (and have in the past, for example Mr. Eckberg) because the information was being reported by other media outlets. My first version of this story did not name either man, the next day another media outlet reported the name and photo of the man arrested--and police released the names of both men involved in this incident, so I reported that. In this case, I thought it would be doing Stillwater Patch users a disservice to leave that information, which is public, out of the story. I hope this clarifies my decision--please believe me when I say it is never an easy call to make.
Sean C.
12:52 pm on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Shawn,
With regard to the security footage, what is the difference between this incident and the assault that took place with the off duty Minneapolis Police Officer who punched a man? That video was released to the public. I'm just curious, I dont see how releasing it could sway anyone in a direction other than where the truth would reside. Are you familiar with the case I referenced?
Randy Marsh
1:03 pm on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Thanks for the response. I do find it frustrating that it seems the tail is wagging the dog a little bit here. I would hope you have a set of guidelines that goes beyond, "well so and so said it, so here you go". I'm not saying either side is right or wrong, but it seems odd that media uses other media to make its decisions. I know I would never use my business competition as a guide for my code or conscience on a dicey matter.
Shawn Hogendorf
1:07 pm on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Sean, I am familiar with the incident you reference, but don't know the difference--based on speculation, it may have to do with the family's wishes, and differences in how police departments handle their business. Obviously very few details have been released about this situation in general, as it is an ongoing investigation.
Teresa
9:57 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Sean c I don't know who you are but you have no idea what you are talking about. Adam never went looking for fights when he was drinking and was the nicest guy to everyone in the time that I have known him I have never even seen him mad. Don't think you understand the situation when you don't know the people in it
Sean C.
10:06 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Once again....for the extremely hard of reading. Do you know Mr. Richards? Were you there? Have you ever heard of people acting diferently when they are not around you? Or when they have been drinking? I, again, am not saying Mr. McCloud is a bad guy. I am pointing out that nobody in this forum was there, and even the police say that the two parties were "interacting" with eachother all night. So why and who are you to pass judgement on the situation and Mr. Richards? Let real police and real investigators determine who was at fault and to what degree? Does anyone in Stillwater understand my point here? Or are you just pissed off there was a black man in your city who beat up a white kid? If the police determine that Mr. McCloud did nothing to provoke Mr. Richards, I will have no problem joining where you people already seem to be, which is in the lynch mob. Until then, wrap your your heads around the very confusing concept of.....YOU WERE NOT THERE.
And stop saying you know what happened, no you don't . How does MN always vote blue, it sounds like Mississippi in here.
Susan
10:53 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Sean, you are passing judgment on us, but seem to be appalled that people are passing judgment on the accused - which, for the most part, I don't see people doing. I am not even remotely close to being a racist and question the objectivity of those who would throw that word around without having any idea about a person, other than a few written words. My comments are based on information from people who were there, those who saw the video, and the family of the man in the hospital. Yours seem only to be speculating.
Instead of attacking those who care about the injured, please consider their feelings. That is all I ask. Stillwater is a wonderful town with good people and I honestly do not believe the comments would be any different if the accused's skin were white...please stop insinuating otherwise.
Shawn Hogendorf
9:57 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Thank you!
Teresa
9:59 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
And Richard is guilty
Teresa
10:04 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
What people don't know is that Richard was staring fights in downtown Stillwater the week before but no major injuries or police reports were made.
Sean C.
10:21 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
This argument is about the legal process. And I dont care what you heard he was doing the week before, if he was not charged, he is not guilty of anything until he is prosecuted for this incident.
Matt H.
5:05 pm on Thursday, October 11, 2012
You're a d bag and I'm glad you post so i can be happy that i'm not you.
Eric Coffman
10:47 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Sean, you pompous ass. We all understand that you regrard yourself very highly, but who are you to attempt to redefine words like victim and charity? What is one person's charitable cause may not be another's. If you don't feel like donating money, then don't do it. Simple as that. But please don't sit here trying to convince others of how correct you are in your way of thinking. Adam IS a victim here (if you don't understand that, use a dictionary). Regardless of who the aggressor was and the intention behind the attacker's punch, Adam is fighting for his life. You should be ashamed of yourself sitting there on your computer implying that having compassion for someone in that state is somehow reproachable. Get over yourself.
Sean C.
10:55 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Pompous? Because I'm saying let the investigators determine what really happened? And redefining terms like victim, aggressor and charity? This happens to be the forum where this story is being discussed, don't imply that I am a coward who stirs pots behind a screen. You do not know anything about my background and I know nothing about yours. So I wont make a ridiculous comment like you just did. If a man breaks into your home and attacks your family, you shoot him and he ends up in a coma at the hospital....who is the victim. If anything I support victim rights passionately, but just because someone ended up with serious injuries does not automatically make the the victim. So once again, for those in Stillwater....wait for the authorities to finish their investigation. How does standing up for due process make you pompous?
Anna Dancer
7:53 am on Friday, October 5, 2012
How about a clear case of: One man, hit another man. The man that was hit, is now dead. End of story.
No racial issue, no "who did what" beforehand.
Those are the facts.
Matt H.
5:05 pm on Thursday, October 11, 2012
D bag
Teresa
10:57 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
He was prosecuted. First degree assault. And thank you Eric
Shawn Hogendorf
11:06 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
No one has been prosecuted, charges have not even been filed in this situation yet--and police have not released the details of their investigation. Even if charges are filed, that does not assume guilt. Please, I understand this is a very emotional incident, but lets try to remember that friends and family of both men are reading these posts. I beg you all, please keep this conversation civil.
Sean C.
2:16 pm on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Teresa,
I just now realized that you must have mispoken. You do know the difference between charged and prosecuted, dont you?
Sean C.
11:05 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
When and where? What is the case number? I would like to read it.
But once again, because I believe in the legal system, I'm still struggling to understand what it has to do with this case from a legal standpoint.
Sean C.
11:11 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Shawn,
I have been civil. And I am the only one who has mentioned that there are two men here who are still innocent until proven guilty. I am the only one who has not branded Mr. Richard guilty of Assault. I seem to be the only one who wants to wait and see what the police uncover about what happened. I am also the only one who has not started name calling like little kids.
Jason Meisner
1:32 pm on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Sean C.
I believe you called the two men drunken idiots, which would be an assumption and name calling.
Sean C.
2:14 pm on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Jason,
I did not start any name calling of anyone on this comment page. As for the two involved parties, they were at a bar, early in the morning and we are now aware of the results. I feel completely comfortable ASSUMING there was quite a bit of DRUNKEN IDIOCY going on. Piss poor attempt at being clever, Jason. However, now that this story has gotten even more sad and tragic, I'm more interested in finding out exactly what happened. And I am not being a hypocrit, I have been the drunken idiot before,many people have. Those of us who have been irresponsible are lucky that nothing like this ever happened to us.
Sean C.
11:14 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Shawn,
Have you been able to find anything on Eric Richards criminal history? If he has one or not, I'm the only one not assuming he has one.
Matt H.
5:07 pm on Thursday, October 11, 2012
Adam had just gotten off work, so he wasn't drunk.
Teresa
11:24 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
I don't know the case number because I didn't have to read about it in the paper. I know what is going on. You are being insensitive and acting like you know what is exactly going on. You don't. You know what the papers have told you. You don't know these people you don't know how this is affecting the ones in their lives. I live in Stillwater. I know these people. You do not. You cannot form an opinion on the legal matters when you don't know all the factors affecting the situation. You have no right to assume this was two "drunk fools" as you said getting into an argument, this is far from what happened, so quit being so insensitive with what you are saying. People are grieving and hurting and you are being pompous. Leave it alone. You don't know what you are saying.
Sean C.
11:32 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
Susan,
My concern comes from years of being "surprised" by the truth, when everyone was so certain about the character of a friend, son, brother or acquaintance. I'm guessing you dont believe this, but I really do hope for a full recovery by Adam. But since it seems to be the only way to justify my position, I will reveal the motivation behind my extreme restraint regarding rushing to assume Mr. Richards bears whole responsibility. My brother returned from Iraq, for the record, I am a 7 year Army veteran myself. My brother would be described as relaxed, never hurt a fly, extremely popular etc. When he came home he had several incidents (legal) that seemed way out of character. Then one night 2 months ago, he went off the deep end and did something (all I will say is that it had nothing to do with women or children) has landed him in jail awaiting trial. This happened after a night of drinking with friends.
Matt H.
5:09 pm on Thursday, October 11, 2012
shut up
Sean C.
11:32 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
My point is, I have seen first hand how someone can behave in a manner completely alien to people who know them best, and we should never be surprised by what behavior and personality traits are capable of revealing themselves, especially when drinking. All I have said from the beginning is, lets let the police sort out the victims and criminals. This is really what sets us apart from the countries we are fighting in. Mob rule and group think are very scary things to watch happen live, and sometimes the person you are convinced is guilty actually lived a completely different truth. For the record, my wife and I love Stillwater.
Susan
11:43 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
So you are offended that we send our good wishes,thoughts, and prayers to the man in the hospital? I NEVER said anything about the accused's guilt or innocense. Yes, some others have, but you passed judgment on me, others, and an entire town. I am sorry about your brother's situation, but I would think this would make you more compassionate, not less. How about we all start over, recognizing that we need to let the legal system runs its course, accept that there are TWO families hurting, and it is okay to have sympathy for the man in the hospital and his family.
Matt H.
5:12 pm on Thursday, October 11, 2012
What branch of the military were you fighting in? Yeah right!!!! You're a couch quarterback who shouldn't be allowed to post here anymore. Go suck an egg please
Sean C.
11:53 am on Thursday, October 4, 2012
I completely agree. And I just read that Adam has passed, I am very sorry that this is the way this story has ended. I truly hope that justice falls as heavy as it can on who holds blame here. If that person is Eric Richards, so be it. I don't kow why this story grabbed my attention, we certainly have enough of these tragedies happening all around us. But it has, and I appologize if I offended anyone. I really just wanted to see the whole story come out before any judgement was passed. I hope his family can survive this.
Shawn
12:31 am on Friday, October 5, 2012
Adam was a GREAT friend of mine and we were close. He was a great person and he was one of the most caring guys in the world. He had a great heart and looked out for everyone. For your info his family took him off life support and we lost a GREAT person today! He impacted a ton and I mean a ton of ppl throughout the twin cities. He was friends with everyone. I have known Adam for almost 17 yrs. I went to jr high and high school with him. For someone to pass judgement on a person by not even knowing him is just ignorance. I'm not trying to start a fight but you need to understand that his family and friends will likely see your comments and be pretty offended as was I. He fought for his life for 5 days. And lost the battle. God took a GREAT young, caring, kind and sweetest guy away from his family and friends. And as to him "interacting all night" with the attacker.... The article DOES NOT say what type of interaction they had. We do not know what actually happened that night because NON of us were there. Adam is not one to start a fight. Like I said I'm not trying to start no fight at all.. i just want you all to understand that his family, as among a lot of his friends ,will see the comments and out of respect you could be a little more respectful of your words.
Bouncer Bartender
10:27 pm on Friday, October 5, 2012
It is nearly impossible to not overserve people. I have worked in bars for years. 1st, you don't see the person the whole night from start to finish, secondly you are serving hundreds of people (on place I worked in had `1,600 people in it at a time) how can you know who's drinking what, and finally some people go to work drunk everyday for years and no one knows not even their family. So how the hell are you going to control the amount that people drink. Its impossible. If you want to stop people from being "overserved" you need to outlaw alcohol.
john swanson
10:05 am on Saturday, October 6, 2012
The mug shot!
The real story is in the eyes, where does all that hate, contempt, and anger come from?